Elder and Sister Roeth

Elder and Sister Roeth

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Week Ending August 3, 2013

Sunday we had a seminary meeting in the evening that had some strange outcomes. The six students at the meeting all registered for seminary. Two students I had thought would want online or had already said they wanted to participate said they would prefer to use the workbooks. One girl was not there and her mom and sister weren’t sure whether she would want to participate. Another young man wanted to do the workbook even though his mom is planning to get the internet. I ended up with three online students. I’ll try to convince two more to give online a chance. It is really a better program and they will get so much more out of it. After the meeting I talked with the online trainer. There were a few things I should have known before the meeting that would have been helpful.

Monday I was able to get all of Week 1 done for online seminary training. In the evening we attended family home evening. Only four kids came so Mortensons took everyone to get ice cream. A girl from our branch didn’t come. She texted another girl that she didn’t come because she didn’t have a ride. That’s bogus. We told her and her parents we would love to give her a ride any time. After we returned home I did another couple of lessons for seminary then went to bed.

Tuesday I was supposed to go visiting with the Relief Society president, but she cancelled. I spent time working on seminary lessons. I need to finish Week 2 and Week 3 before the weekend. The students need to do several things to participate in the program. The support specialist will get the kids set up in the system once she gets everything. We are supposed to start seminary in a couple of weeks so there is much to be done.

In the evening we picked up one of our institute students from the 1st Ward to go visiting. We visited one family with two kids. They are on a baseball team that plays until mid-October so they won’t be able to come to institute until then. The boy leaves on a mission the end of October so he is out completely. The girl’s boyfriend is being baptized soon, so maybe he will attend with her after baseball. We visited the grandparents of another girl who was out with her boyfriend. We left the information for her. We drove way out to the west end of town to find a couple more kids. We couldn’t find one home and the other was not home so we left a flyer. We then stopped by a very nice home. There were some very noisy dogs in the courtyard. We were a little intimidated by the dogs and no one seemed to be home so we left a flyer in the mailbox for the kids. It seemed like an unproductive evening.

We took our student home and Ted suggested I go meet her parents. It turned out the mother of another girl was there for a book club so we talked to her about institute. Her daughter is leaving for school in two weeks so we encouraged her to enroll in institute there. One mom was wearing a t-shirt with something on it about collecting scraps for quilting. I told them we were starting a quilting group in Ft. Wingate. (She was probably horrified that we would tie a quilt out of sheets because she had made some really beautiful pieced quilts.) I then told them if they knew of anyone getting rid of a sewing machine to let us know. One lady said she had one that was missing the plate, but she has used cardboard on it to sew. She had just had it serviced and wanted to give it to us. They also said there were two machines at church no one used that we could have. I was so excited to have the potential for three sewing machines. The Lord does indeed answer prayers and provide for our needs.

Wednesday we went for lunch at the senior center in Iyanbito. We got there about the time lunch was to be served. Our Relief Society president was there. I sat and worked on a puzzle with her for a few minutes while we waited. Another lady was there and we visited a bit. Finally they started serving. It turned out that the van driver was running the kitchen by himself. The manager was in Window Rock for something—I hope she hasn’t left or the center will fall apart. We had lamb ribs, brussel sprouts that looked like zucchini, strawberries and bananas, corn on the cob, and a tortilla. I think it had been ready at 11:30 since it was well cooked.

As he was serving he would pick up one tray, put everything on it from various locations in the kitchen then hand it out. I would have taken several trays and put the meat on them, served the vegetables and fruits, and then put the silverware on and handed them out. I gave my tray to an older lady then got her some tea. By the time I went through the line again he needed to cut up more meat which took about 10 minutes. Ted and our friend were almost done by the time I joined them.

In the afternoon we went to read with a family. The mom wasn’t home but arrived just as we started. Her grandma also joined us which was nice. We invited them to the quilting day. It would be good for the grandma to get out and socialize with the ladies. After we read a chapter we reviewed some basic principles with the little girl. Her baptism date is finally set for Saturday. Ted and I are giving talks and her uncle is baptizing her. She remembered quite a bit of what we had taught her.

From there we went to get water. Ted dropped me at Goodwill to see if they had a crock for our crock pot base. If they didn’t we would get one at Walmart. I was totally surprised—they had a blue crock. When Ted arrived I brought the base in to see if it would fit. It did—totally amazing—even though it is a little snug at the top. Anyway, we got it. They said we could return it if it didn’t work.

We went to Walmart to pick up a few things then headed to Tohlakai. After seminary we had scheduled a meeting with kids and parents about the new seminary year. They have a temple trip on Saturday so the branch president wanted to interview them during the meeting. I told him that wouldn’t work since they had to be there to get the information. I had scheduled the meeting so he could be there, so that really surprised me. None of the kids have computers in their home and none have the internet so they have no option but the home study workbooks. The kids really are dedicated to keep coming week after week. I hope they are getting something out of the class.

Thursday I went to the church for our quilting day. Our Relief Society president and I went early so we could clean out the cupboards so they’d be ready for the material when it arrived. Our kids are bringing some with them when they come next week. She cleaned the cupboards in the Relief Society room and I cleaned the one in the hall. Mine didn’t really have anything in it so it was just dusty with a few cobwebs. She threw out a bunch of stuff. There’s a lot of room now.

When it was time for others to arrive we were still working. When we were finished and no one else had come we were a bit concerned. We had lunch and visited for a while. I suggested that we come each week and sew on quilt tops. When we have stuff to show, we’ll show the ladies and tell them what a good time we are having and encourage them to come. I think we can reach out to more people in the area and maybe get some increased interest. People need to see that something is happening before they want to join in.

In the evening we went to Gallup to watch the Indian dancers at the Courthouse. The evening was really great. It had just a bit of a breeze and a little coolness to it. The Olla Maidens from Zuni were dancing. They dance with pots on their heads as an honor to their ancestors who had to carry water in their pots for their families. We were there when they first arrived and watched as they put on their accessories for their costumes. They wore wide sashes around their waists and pulled them really tight—I couldn’t see how they could breathe. They had leather bands around their legs with fabric wrapped underneath. They also wore regular moccasins, but it looked like boots with the leg wrappings. And they all wore an amazing amount of turquoise jewelry—big necklaces, huge rings on at least two fingers on each hand so their hands were almost entirely covered.

Elder and Sister Roeth at Gallup Courthouse

The dancing was good. Basically they just do kind of a shuffle with their feet, with small steps either forwards or backwards. They also had flowers they waved while they danced. When they put the pots on their heads they sort of kissed the pot then moved it around on their heads to find the secure position. The pots have a concave base so they will stay on their heads better. They said they use green ware pots because the handmade ones are too expensive. One girl stopped in the middle of one of the dances to adjust her pot.

Zuni Olla Maidens dancing

They sang songs in between the dancing. Only the men write the songs. One of the songs was written by a father-in-law. The songs only seem to use a few tones but I’m sure the beauty is in the message. Afterward we took pictures—they wouldn’t let us take pictures before the performance even though that was the most interesting. I got my picture taken with the three dancers.

Sister Roeth and Zuni Olla Maidens

Friday I had a call from the CES supervisor. He said they had decided not to let me teach the reduced number of students online. They wanted to have just one class for all the online students in the Gallup area unless the numbers made it so they could have at least 7 in each class. I need to prayerfully consider what to do to make the class for the remaining students meaningful. If I have three students in the home study class, I can’t imagine it will be as good as if I have six. If I get all the students to go online, I still might not be the teacher.  I am really not sure what I am supposed to do at this point. The supervisor counseled me to talk with the branch president and let him decide how the branch wants to move forward—each student making their own decision, or all the students going the same way.  I feel jammed.

In the evening we had a heavy rainstorm. At first the thunder and lightning was in the distance, but at one point it felt and sounded like it either hit our house or very nearby. The house shook and the lights flashed, and it sounded like a gun had been fired next to my ears. It was a bit scary. It happened again about 20 minutes later. The rain was extremely heavy for a while then slowed to a gentler rain for several hours. We felt that we were protected and watched over.

Saturday I only had two students at seminary. We had a good discussion on learning, how we learn, who is responsible for our learning, and how that applies to our seminary class. Ted had gone to help prepare for a baptism, so I took the two kids with me to the baptism. The little girl we taught in February was finally baptized. Almost the entire family of her mother was there. Her brother had come from Denver and was dressed in a white shirt and tie. I congratulated him on his baptism and told him he looked like a missionary. Her mother and sister were there from Albuquerque and I congratulated them on their baptisms. Her other two brothers were there, but they stayed outside and goofed around. Lame! If I were their mom, I would have told them to come inside to the baptism and support the little girl. It was a good group.

Pres. Joe (uncle), Emily Joe, Sugar Joe (mom) with Roeths

Emily Joe (in pink) and family

After the baptism we went home to heat our food for the branch dinner then headed to the church. I’m not sure the Saturday meal is going to last long. The branch president is already saying it isn’t working. There were only about 35 people when everyone was there, but we enjoyed a good visit. No one had assigned food, so we had three main dishes and a baptism cake from the little girl’s family.

Elder Patterson, Claudia Thomas, Anfernee Begay, Elder Landon

In the evening we headed back to the stake center for another baptism. The young man’s mom welcomed everyone and was very emotional as she told us how happy she was that her son was finally able to be baptized. She was baptized a couple of weeks ago with a younger son. Some of her aunts were there along with her mom. She is now waiting for her mom to be baptized. It went well and was a very spiritual event. Afterward we went to the Indian dancing at the courthouse. It was less interesting tonight, but the dancer did a buffalo dance with the white buffalo headdress which was nice. The air was really nice and we enjoyed being out.

Celicion dancers with Roeths

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