"Go forward in life with a twinkle in your eye and a smile on your face, but with great purpose in heart." ~Gordon B. Hinckley~
Elder and Sister Roeth
Sunday, November 25, 2012
Week Ending November 24, 2012
Sunday early Ted had a call from the branch president saying he was sick and asking Ted to help Bro. Joe if he needed any guidance in conducting a meeting. Bro. Joe was just sustained as a counselor in the branch presidency last week. I did a few last minute preparations for my lesson and we left for church. Ted spent some time talking with Johnny Joe about conducting—fortunately the high council speaker was there. Bro. Joe did a great job and I was really proud of him. What an initiation!
Our temple prep class went well–we just had one couple there. I went from there to Relief Society just in time to start. There were only three ladies when we started. Then all the Young Women came in. It turned out that the Young Women’s president had a problem with one of her daughters and she had to take her home. That meant we had a full class which made it much nicer for teaching. We had a good discussion, even though I told them they needed to do what they can to prepare for emergencies and one sister told me they were all so destitute that there was no way to do any storage at this time.
In the afternoon we decided to do some visiting since our lessons had cancelled. We walked over to the Navajo Housing by the school to visit a less active member. When they opened the door they said, “What took you so long to come?” It turns out that the missionaries had told them they would tell us about them and we would come see them. We had a good visit. We offered to pick them up for church. She said she’d come and he’s thinking about it.
Monday visited our grandma. She was looking good today and we had a good visit with her. She was able to tell us where several people lived in her neighborhood so we have several to visit. It continues to amaze me the number of people we find who are members of the church who are not on the branch list as well as the number on the list who are no longer here. There are several on the list that are deceased.
After that we went to visit a man who lives on the same road. I cannot remember the last time I met someone who was as negative as he was. One of his grandsons came over while he was talking about not being able to go anywhere and said, “Don’t lie, Grandpa. You go over to the casino and gamble all the time.” He was really a sad character.
We had looked for someone in the branch to invite for Thanksgiving. In the morning I felt strongly that we should invite one of the families. We drove to Gallup to get more food so we’d have enough for their family. I talked to Heather on the phone and she gave me a couple of recipes that sounded yummy. By evening we hadn’t heard from the family we’d invited to know if they were coming. Then we had a call from the Relief Society President, inviting us to dinner.
Tuesday I studied most of the day. I still hadn’t heard from the family we invited by mid-morning, so I sent a message asking what the status was. I got a message back a few minutes later that they wouldn’t be coming. I was a little disappointed, but it also meant we could go somewhere. I made a call and accepted the invitation.
In the afternoon, we taught a makeup class for temple prep. The man’s granddaughter and grandson sat in with us. The granddaughter is home from BYU and is submitting papers for a mission in a month.
At institute we only had one student. He told us he’d invited several people he thought would be there. He said he really feels the spirit. He’s going on a mission, so we need to get this going before he leaves.
Wednesday I spent some time studying in the morning. I also spent time baking and doing things in the house.
Thursday was a good day. We have much to be thankful for and it was nice to have a day just to reflect on our blessings. We had the opportunity to talk with all of our children and express our love for them. We were invited to have dinner with our Relief Society president and her husband. We enjoyed the time with them. We were so grateful for their invitation as we had been feeling the pangs of being away from home for the holiday. It was nice to be with people we enjoy. We missed being with our own family, but we felt the love of the Lord with us.
Friday I studied almost all day. I needed to organize my thoughts for my lesson on Saturday. I feel so inadequate at times, like I really don’t know what is needful and what should be presented. I reread the book about teaching seminary and got some additional ideas about things I needed to do. In the late morning we visited a family here in Ft. Wingate. We shared part of a talk by Elder Echo Hawk and Ted gave the husband a blessing because he had a sore tooth.
Saturday morning I had an impression about a parable for the seminary kids to encourage scripture reading. I quickly wrote it down before I forgot. I’m not sure it really made a difference, but I think they got the message. They can only feed their spirits if they read on a daily basis. The kids are in need of the strength they get from the scriptures.
In the afternoon we went to visit in Iyanbito. We were looking for two brothers on Burnt Corn Rd. We turned into the area where they lived and met a man. He was their brother-in-law who lives on the same property with them. He invited us into his hogan—our first visit to a hogan. It was about 20 feet across, round and very basic with a ceiling that sloped up to the center point. It was in fairly good condition, but needed new flooring. There was a sofa facing an entertainment unit with several shelves of videos. There was a kitchen area and a small table where he sat next to the sofa. There was a wood stove on one side. There was a room off to the side that I assumed must be the bedroom. He was very nice, but he had some disappointing attitudes. He would make a good branch president and we strongly encouraged him to come to church and become active. He feels badly for his people and said many of them have totally lost hope. I was very impressed with him and felt he could really make a contribution to the branch. I told him we really needed him and encouraged him to come.
We then went next door to visit the first brother. We knocked on the door of the house which looked like it was falling apart. The door was about my height. A window opened to the right of the door and we saw a man with white hair, but he didn’t say anything. We told him who we were and told him who we were looking for. He shut the window and came to the door. His jacket had seen better days. It had lots of holes in it and the filling was coming out. He had a cowboy hat on and his hair was about to his shoulders. We had a good conversation with him. We invited him to come to church.
We then went to the next house where his brother lived in another hogan. He was outside and came over to visit. While we were there his brother came over without the jacket on, knocked on the door of the hogan, and went in. He was back out in a couple of minutes with a different jacket on. Apparently, his brother’s wife washes his jacket for him. We invited this brother to church and walked back to the gate. The first brother walked with us and told us we’d gotten off easy—usually his brother chases missionaries off. He said he has to watch out for the family and when they start to argue he has to separate them and restore peace. It was definitely an interesting experience.
Monday, November 19, 2012
Week Ending November 17, 2012
Sunday we got up to find our pilot light was out on the
furnace. Ted tried reaching the emergency number but weren’t successful in
getting help. In the meantime we turned the oven on and left the door open to
heat up the living room. While Ted was out cleaning off the car, our landlord
came by on a walk and Ted told him about our situation. A few minutes after Ted
came in there was a knock on the door and the landlord was there. He lit the
pilot and told us how to handle it in the future.
| Our outside thermometer, Sunday 11/11 about 9AM |
We thought the
weather was cleared up so we were surprised that the roads were still quite icy
when we headed out for church. We arrived in good time and visited with the
elders for a bit. I think our talks went OK. I spoke a little longer than I’d
planned, and Ted spoke a little shorter than he’d planned, but it all came out
in the end. We stayed for Sunday School and enjoyed the lesson that was taught.
It was the same one that had been taught at Ft. Wingate last week so it was
interesting to see the different way it was presented. After Sunday School they
told us there was no teacher for Relief Society so church was over. One of the
sisters asked if we couldn’t just read together or have some discussion since
we were there. The elders had prepared a lesson, so they presented that to some
people that stayed.
When we arrived home we had a bite to eat then went to teach
a discussion to a young lady. Her two younger sisters and her grandma were also
there. We had a good discussion. I felt a very strong spiritual impression that
the things we were teaching are true. In the end we asked the girl to pray and
she offered a beautiful prayer. From there we went to a home to invite a couple
to the temple prep class. The wife said her father lived with them and asked if
he could attend as well. We then went to teach a makeup lesson for seminary. We
taught the whole family the seminary lesson. I think it went well, but it was a
little more challenging with the two younger children there.
Monday we went to see our grandma. She was not doing well.
She looked like she was not eating or sleeping well. She is in a lot of pain.
She sleeps on the couch in the living room by the wood stove so she can be
warm. Everything is aggravated by her mourning for her father. We talked for a
long time, mostly letting her talk and express her concerns and her pains. We
tried to give her some comfort and read a couple of scriptures about where
spirits are after they die. We talked about the good memories she has of her
dad and her desire to be with him again. Ted gave her a blessing before we
left. After the blessing it was clear she had been crying, but she had a different
countenance. She seemed much happier and more herself. She said she felt much
better.
Tuesday we spent most of the day studying. I had a call
asking me to teach Relief Society on Sunday. We are also teaching the temple
prep class. We have a lot of preparation to do this week. At institute we had
three students. We had a new man there. I thought he was about 18 or 19, but he
turned out to be 26. It turned out that he is being baptized on 12/11.
Wednesday we went walking in the morning and it was really cold.
We decided not to walk in the early morning again—it’s too cold and it hurt our
lungs. I studied most of the day, preparing my lessons for the week. In the
evening Ted and I went through the temple prep book and reviewed what needed to
be taught and split up the lesson. This will be our first attempt at team
teaching.
Thursday we got up and did our joint study and got ready for
the day before walking. We walked to the church and got our room set up for
Sunday. We also made several copies. Mid-afternoon we went visiting here in Ft.
Wingate. We introduced ourselves to a family that lives here. They were all
sick so they suggested we come back after the holidays. I think at least one of
the other two people have moved because there is a Baptist minister at one of
the addresses. We went to Sundance to try to visit some people. We stopped at a
member’s house and had a good visit with her. Her husband came home while we
were there and we had an interesting conversation. He is really struggling with
things in his life. He is a really nice man with some real concerns.
Our appointment in Toh-la-kai cancelled out so we decided to
do more visiting. We drove down Roadrunner Road, a not-so-good dirt road. We
had a couple of addresses to look for. A man drove by so we asked him where the
people were we were looking for. One man was in a care center in Rehoboth. At
the other home, we met the lady we were looking for but she was watching TV and
said she was too busy to talk with us. We went to visit another home. The man’s
name was not on our membership list, but he said he was a member “a long time
ago”. There were a bunch of really aggressive dogs that made us a little
nervous. We had a brief visit and left after inviting them to come to church
and visit us.
Friday we did a few things around the house then in the
early afternoon we went visiting to try to find some more people in the
Sundance area. We were told one man lived exactly one mile from the turn off
from the highway. The problem we had was that our odometer doesn’t have the
tenth of a mile digit on it. We looked at the reading when we turned, then
looked again when the last digit changed to see about how far we were from the
tunnel, then when the last digit changed again we turned around and went back
about as far as we thought we’d gone from the tunnel to the first change. We
got to a place where there were two houses on the right and one a bit further
on the left. The one on the right was the home we’d visited the day before so I
knew it wasn’t that house. I ran to ask her where to go. It was the one on the
left. When we got to the house the man we had gone to see wasn’t home, but his
wife invited us in and we visited with her for a while.
After running a couple of errands in Gallup we drove to Toh-la-kai
and set up for seminary and Ted’s adult education class. At about 6:00 one
family came to drop their daughter off so she could go to Albuquerque to do
baptisms the next day. At 6:30 there was no one there. We started calling
people to see where they were. Two families actually came so I had three in my
class and two in Ted’s.
Satuday morning we had seminary. All of my class was there.
The differences between the two classes are very interesting. In the Ft.
Wingate most of the kids come most of the time. We almost always have a
devotional and we have a class president. In Toh-la-kai there are four students
that have never come. I have yet to have a student-prepared devotional and we
have no class president. Immediately after we dropped a few things at our house
then left for the temple. The 1 PM session is designated as the Native American
session but is now usually in English. A man came in just before the session
was supposed to start to talk to a lady who spoke Spanish. He asked how many
native speakers were in the session. A few ladies raised their hands and said
the others had gone to the dressing room. He decided the session would be done
in Navajo. He then told the lady helping him to get earphones for the English
speakers. She told us she’d take care of that in a few minutes.
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Week Ending November 10, 2012
Sunday we went off Daylight Savings Time so we got an extra
hour of sleep. At church I was surprised and pleased to see our grandma and her
entire family. Her father had passed away Tuesday. Her father was one of the
last Code Talkers from the world war. He was 90 years old. Many people feel the
Code Talkers were responsible for saving many lives during the war because the
Japanese were not able to break their code. They were not recognized after the
war until 1968 when the details of their service were declassified.
After Sunday School we met with Pres. Pine to discuss what
we could do to help the branch more. He asked us to teach a temple prep class.
He gave us a list of about 5 individuals and families that he would like us to
meet with. I think we will be kept quite busy doing the things he would like
done.
Monday it felt good to get up when it was light and go for
our walk. Back at our apartment we cleaned and did wash. We studied a bit and
did a few odd jobs. In the early evening we went to a community meeting about
the post office. It is being reduced to 4 hours of open window in order to
conserve funds. This is happening at rural post offices across the country. At
least they are keeping it open so we can get our mail here. I felt badly for
the lady who runs the post office. She is having her hours cut in half and she
needs to support 4 children.
Tuesday we spent most of the day studying and preparing for
classes. At institute we had three students. Afterward, two students stayed and
we played games for a while and had a good time.
Wednesday morning we took a trip to Canyon de Chelly,
pronounced de-Shay. We stopped at the Hubbell Trading Post, the oldest open
trading post in the country, and bought a couple of souvenirs. It was an
interesting place. We watched part of a video on the Code Talkers which I
bought. One of the interesting things I learned was that the alphabet was coded
using animal names: A=ant, B=bear, etc. Then the Navajo word for the animal was
used in the code, so the decoder had to translate the Navajo to English then
take the first letter of the word for the coded message. The word for bear is
“Shoosh”. It suddenly became clear to me why the Wingate High Bears kept
cheering “Shoosh” at their games.
| Wagon at the Hubbell Trading Post |
At Canyon de Chelly we took the north rim drive first. We
stopped at a couple of overlooks and the scenery was amazing. There are actually
Navajos living at the bottom of the canyon right now. The ruins in the cliffs
were also very interesting. At every overlook there were vendors selling their
wares. I bought a beautiful turquoise necklace at the first stop. We also
bought a stone with two cocopellis on it. The cocopellis are gods of the rain
and the harvest. The ones we have on our stone are playing flutes calling for
rain. All the artists have a story to tell. It was interesting visiting with
them.
| Canyon de Chelly |
On the south rim we stopped at several overlooks. Most of
the overlooks required a walk to the viewing site so we got lots of exercise. At
the end we went back to the White House trail. This was a walk into the canyon
to see some ruins and petroglyphs in the cliff walls. The walk down was not too
bad. The trail got to be fairly narrow at some points, but it was safe enough
if we were careful. It was amazing the way the wind and water has shaped and
etched the mountains and left beautiful designs. It looks like sand dunes set
in stone in several places. At the bottom there was a Navajo home with the area
fenced off so visitors would not bother the people. We walked over to the ruins
and took several pictures. They were amazing. It is called White House because
the upper level is covered in white plaster. At the bottom looking up it was
amazing how far up it was.
| Part of trail to White House Ruins |
| White House Ruins |
As we started back up several young men and women came
running out of the tunnel at the end of the trail. They were a wrestling team
from the Chinle High School doing some training exercise. They had run down the
trail and then turned around and ran back up. They all passed us before we
reached the top, some sooner than others. Some of the girls that came past us
near the end were saying how their legs were really painful and wondering how
the first ones had run the entire way. I couldn’t believe they had run either
direction. I felt fairly safe coming down, but I would never have attempted
running. Going back up was unthinkable. I’m afraid if I had stopped to rest I
wouldn’t have been able to start up again. Some of the steps up were fairly
high and I wasn’t at all sure I was going to make it. The drive home was
uneventful. We were both tired, and my legs were sore and weak.
| Sunset over Canyon de Chelly |
Thursday I studied most of the day. We planned to visit in
the afternoon, hoping to see some people that need support. Ted got an email
asking us to speak in the Tohlakai Branch on Sunday. It is Veterans’ Day so
they want him to share the story of his conversion and experience in the Navy. We
set up a visit for Friday with a couple. I decided to make cookies to take with
us. Just as I finished some cookies our Friday appointment called to ask if we
could come now. Their granddaughter was at home and they wanted us to talk to
her. They told us how to get to their home and we packed up and left.
At their home we visited with the granddaughter. We had met
her on our first visit with the Relief Society President. She’s 18 and said she
was out of high school and not working and not in college. She really didn’t
want to participate in the seminary class we were starting. She recently told
her grandma she wants to join the church. We will teach her and help her
understand the gospel.
After we left there we went to visit another family. The
husband had a stroke and is in a wheel chair. His ex-wife is caring for him in
a home that is about half finished. The outside looks like it is missing the
outside layer. We asked the husband if he would like to go to church and he
indicated he would. The ex-wife was going to a Contribution Meeting. I asked
what that was. Her niece’s daughter had died. Since most of the Indians don’t
get life insurance, when someone dies they have a meeting where all the people
give money to help with burial costs and to help the family. This is also
called a “Gathering”. The people share memories about the person who has passed
away.
From there we went to visit two ladies we saw a couple of
weeks ago. It was almost totally dark, so it was tricky finding their driveway
in the dark. The mother was home alone. Her daughter had gone with some people
around there into Gallup to a motel and she didn’t know where she was. She said
she thought she’d be back in about a week based on what has happened in the
past. We had a good visit with the mom. She is not a member. She wants to read
the Book of Mormon and the Bible before she joins the church so she knows what
it is all about. She has read the Book of Mormon and it gives her a good
feeling. She is currently in Psalms in the Bible. She had several questions
about what she is reading and said the best thing we could do was help answer
her questions.
We had thought about visiting one more person but were not
ready to tackle a strange place in the dark. We came home and finished baking
the cookies and studying. Sister Joe called to say they would not be able to
come to seminary Saturday but wanted to do a makeup lesson. She said it is
supposed to snow this weekend—I can hardly wait. We are keeping busy and
getting busier. That is good.
Friday we woke up to the wind blowing. It looked as if it
had rained during the night. I tried wiping the car down after our walk, but it
wouldn’t get dry. It was like the water was too cold to get absorbed. I hung
the towel and shammy I had used on the fence to dry. A short time later as I
was studying I heard what sounded like rain on the air conditioner. Sure
enough, it was raining outside. My towel and shammy were very wet on the fence.
It rained off and on all day, and snow was being forecast for Saturday with
about an inch on the ground Sunday. The high temperature for Sunday was
supposed to be 35 degrees with a low of 4 degrees.
I worked on my lesson for both seminaries during the day and
did some review for the temple preparation class we’ll be teaching. I also
began thinking about the talk I need to give Sunday in Toh-la-kai. I had five
students in the seminary class. We had good discussion. I got a little confused
in the middle of the lesson and almost gave part of the Ft. Wingate lesson, but
I caught myself in time.
Saturday we woke up to about 1 ½ inches of snow and very
cold temperatures. We got ready for seminary in plenty of time, but it took Ted
quite a bit of time to clean off the car so we got to the church just in time to
set up and be ready. I only had three students.
| Ted at our cottage, first snow |
It snowed (blizzard) off and on all day. We didn’t have to
go anywhere, so we hunkered down in the cottage. I made a pot of soup that
tasted good. I worked on my talk part of the day and spent quite a bit of time
looking at family history. When I looked at some records Steven had found, they
were some German records that had just been indexed and contained quite a bit
about the Roeth family back in the mid-1800’s. In the evening we watched a
movie on the Code Talkers. They were really amazing and made a huge
contribution to the country during the war.
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Week Ending November 3, 2012
Sunday when we got up the temperature was about 30 degrees. Our
meeting was good. There was a couple from Ramah who had come to speak. I had
not realized “Ramah” was a Book of Mormon word. The town must have been settled
by members of the church. The counselor in the branch presidency was also
supposed to speak, but he just summarized his thoughts. It took the same amount
of time.
The rest of the meetings were cancelled to have a dinner for
a missionary couple who leaves this week. We took the opportunity to talk with
Pres. Tulley to ask about seminary. The dinner was nice. The branch had a
little speech, several people had gifts, and the couple shared a few comments.
It was nice.
Monday we were unable to confirm our appointment so we drove
to our grandma’s house. A young man opened the door and said she wasn’t home.
We told him to let her know we had come and we left. I was feeling concerned
about her. She is such a sweet lady. I thought we needed to be doing something
more but didn’t know what we could do. I called the Relief Society President. She
suggested a man we could visit who’d had a stroke and needed help. We made a
list of people and started out. We couldn’t find the man’s house at first. When
we found it we parked the car and walked up the driveway. We asked if there was
anything we could do to help—their house looked like it was about to fall down.
We then drove to visit a mother and daughter in the branch. Another
daughter and her son that live in the hogan just across the driveway were there.
A nephew who lives in the hogan at the bottom of the hill also stopped in. We
talked quite a bit about their family. Apparently, the lady is one of 14 kids.
When we were ready to leave we asked if we could have a prayer with them. She told
us about her sister who is in the hospital and asked us to remember her in our
prayers. We also said we would call the temple and put her name on the prayer
roll. They were grateful for that.
We then tried finding a couple of people in the Turtle Butte
area. That is just across Interstate 40 from us. When we turned off the highway
the road turned into dirt. We had no clue which way to go but we stayed to the
right and the second driveway was the one we were looking for. After we left
there, we went home. It was nearly dark and we didn’t want to try strange roads
in the dark.
Tuesday we drove to visit another lady and her daughter on
the elders’ list. They live down in Iyanbito down a very ugly dirt road. We had
no idea which was her home, so we parked the car at the first sign of life and
walked to the house. The lady showed us the trailer we were looking for and we
walked over. She wasn’t home but we knew her daughter lived just up the road, so
we walked up to the group of houses that was just past hers. As we were
wondering what to do we noticed two men walking up the road. One was the lady’s
son who lived in the house where we were. He said he usually listens to the
elders when they come visit his mom. He also pointed out his sister’s house—it
was about ½ a mile up the road across the field. I shuddered to think what the
road to her house would be like. Anyway, neither of the ladies was at home, so
we left and walked back to the car.
The roads here are in bad condition. Even the interstate is
bumpy and rough. The paved roads vary as to condition, but are at least
drivable. The dirt roads vary from quite smooth to slightly wash boarded to
open field. The road we were on for this trip had deep ruts and pot holes
12-18” deep. Normally I’m the nervous one, but Ted was quite anxious as he was
driving. There was a van in front of us that was driving on the wrong side of
the road, but it didn’t look any better over there. Ted talked to our car while
he was driving, telling her how grateful he is for all the good service she’s
done for us and apologizing for the trial she was experiencing on the road. She
is a good car.
After we left Iyanbito, we drove to Turtle Butte again to
try another home. This dirt road was much smoother like it had been graded
periodically. We passed an unmarked driveway with a single house at the end. We
parked the car in the very soft dirt and walked. As soon as we got within sight
of the house six large dogs started barking and running toward us. Ted, who is
normally a dog person, got a bit nervous. We stopped at the gate and rang the
bell—there were two more dogs inside who were obviously protecting their
territory. No one answered so we left a note. While we were standing there one
of the dogs had come over to me and barked a bit. Then another dog came over as
if to come near me and the first dog began barking at it as if to protect me.
It was very interesting.
When we got home we felt dusty and tired. We got ready for
the onslaught of trick-or-treaters. As it turned out, no one came to our door.
Maybe they think our house is haunted.
Thursday I did some work to prepare for my seminary lesson
Saturday. I felt very unsettled about what to talk about. Ted listened while I
went over the things I wanted to present and gave me some ideas. I felt much
better about it all. I made some additional notes and put some ideas together.
We found out the priesthood had scheduled a wood-cutting trip for 9 AM
Saturday, so we had to reschedule seminary to 8 AM. We needed to let the branch
president’s kids know, so we walked over to his home, armed with only a street
number and a description of which street (the outer loop) he lived on. We found
his house and left a note in the door. When we tried to find the trail back to
our part of town the barking dogs and flashlight alerted the neighbors to the
ghost walkers and they came to see what was going on. They were kind enough to
show us where the break in the fence was and we managed to get home OK.
It is pitch black here at night. Ted kept commenting on how
amazing the stars were. We have never seen so many stars at night. We bought a
wheel that shows us where stars are in the sky based on time of day and month
of year. We stayed outside looking at stars for a while. We were able to pick
out several constellations and the Milky Way which was totally amazing to us.
Friday as I was waking up I had several more thoughts about
how and what I needed to do for my lesson. I also realized that in my efforts
to prepare for Saturday I had not reviewed the lesson for Friday. Since I teach
the same lessons to both seminaries on different schedules, I don’t need to do
a separate preparation for Tohlakai, I just need to review what I taught three
weeks previously to Ft. Wingate. I need to make some adjustments but not an
entirely different lesson. That’s a blessing.
Our seminary coordinator came down from Farmington to
observe and teach us. He arrived early and cleaned up some additional desks and
chairs for our seminary class, so we moved into a smaller room. I thought it
worked much better. It was a shame though—only two students came. We had a good
lesson and the two that came had a good discussion. I spent time with the
coordinator afterward and he gave me some good comments. I felt like it had
gone well and so I was pleased that his comments were positive.
Saturday, November 3, 2012
Week Ending October 27, 2012
Sunday the branch president called to ask us to be ready to
speak in church. We were supposed to have speakers, but he hadn’t heard
anything and wanted a back-up plan. As it turned out, a counselor in the stake
presidency came, not to speak but to make an announcement, so he spoke and Ted
spoke. The speaker didn’t come. My Relief Society lesson went well—at least I
felt good about it. There was a lot of participation and that is usually good.
In the late afternoon we went to call on a referral we’d
been given at zone conference. The pamphlet we’d left on Friday was still in
the door, but there was a truck outside. We knocked a couple of times and a
young man about 23 years old came to the door. We had apparently awakened him.
We told him his grandmother had asked us to call on him. We gave him the
pamphlet we’d left before made an appointment for Friday afternoon.
After that we went to call on the granddaughter of a lady in
Tohlakai. She actually lives just across the back fence from us. She is a sweet
girl and was very kind. She is obviously very lonely. She had told her
boyfriend several times recently that she wanted to start going back to church.
We offered to call on her again and give her whatever support we could.
Monday we were all prepared to visit our grandma but she
called to say she had a doctor’s appointment and wouldn’t be available. We
decided to go see a volcano and ice cave near Grants since we had the day off.
The climb to the volcano was beautiful. The entire area is covered with
volcanoes and lava flows. When we reached the top of the trail we were inside
the cone of the volcano. There was a huge, cone-shaped pit with one side
completely gone where the lava had broken out. The lava flow goes about 26 miles.
The trees had no chance to get good roots and they were twisted and perched on
the sides of the mountain. Many of the trees are burned from lightning strikes.
There is a trading post at the start of the hike where the family who owns the
land has lived for nearly one hundred years. We had a good visit with the
great-granddaughter of the original owner who lives there now.
| Carolyn in the volcano |
The other side
of the trading post was the trail to the ice cave. It is basically part of a
collapsed lava tube. The temperature stays at a max of 31 all year. We went
down into the cave, but we were still just at the edge of it, and it was plenty
cold. When they first discovered it the ice was 12 feet thick. It is now about
20 feet thick due to water seeping through the ground and runoff from the
rains. Since it is so cold, the water just sits on top until they get a hard
freeze then it becomes part of the ice layer. We really enjoyed the hikes.
| Ice Cave |
Tuesday I studied a bit in the morning then made cookies. We
had a bit of lunch/dinner then headed to Gallup to run a few errands before
Institute. Ted’s institute class went well, but only one of our former
attendees came. We had a good visit with him. He is 18 and getting his papers
ready to submit for a mission. About half way through the lesson another person
came. He is from the other Gallup ward and is Indian. He is a returned
missionary and Ward Mission Leader. Both of them said they would invite others
to attend. We explained that we would like to get some activities going so
people can socialize. I really hope it will grow.
Wednesday I studied a lot preparing for my lesson for
Saturday. The weather is getting colder and it is difficult to want to go
outside before it warms up.
Thursday I studied most of the day. The wind was blowing a
bit, but Ted and I went for a walk up by the elementary school. It was plenty
cool, but we enjoyed it.
Friday we got up at 6 AM, had a bite to eat and read our
scriptures. When it began to get light around 7 AM we bundled up and went for a
walk around our neighborhood. (It was about 32 degrees when we got up, but when
we left to go walking it had dropped to 30 degrees.) There were a couple of
other people out walking and a car or two drove by us, but it was fairly quiet
outside. It was also plenty chilly.
We called and sang Happy Birthday to Seth. He didn’t say
much of course, but Heather said he was smiling. We studied most of the
morning. In the afternoon we went to visit our referral. He was referred to us
by his grandma in Zuni. At first we didn’t think he was home. Then he answered
and told us we needed to use the other door. We went around to the back and
went in. He has had anxiety attacks. His family took him to a medicine man to
help get rid of the anxiety attacks and the medicine man told him he needed to
get into a religion. I think that’s why they referred him to us. We both felt
really confused as to what to teach him. We visited with him for a few minutes
and we made an appointment for next week to come back.
We tried to collect our thoughts for a bit before we had to
leave for Tohlakai. We went a bit early so we could visit with Freestones to
find out what they had been doing that was reaching the people. After we talked
we had our seminary class. The group seemed to be a bit more aware of what I was
talking about tonight. The family of four called just before we were going to
start to say their mom was in the hospital and they wouldn’t be coming. I hope
they eventually get to come.
Saturday we got up and walked in the cold again. This time
it was still dark when we walked. We had to hurry so we could get ready in time
for seminary. My class seemed to go well this morning. I was very touched with
the scripture given for devotional. The student had forgotten she was supposed
to give it, so she only had about 5 minutes to prepare. She read a scripture
from the Book of Mormon about Christ then bore a sweet testimony about Him. It
was a perfect lead into the lesson since we were talking about Peter’s
testimony of Christ and the Pharisees wanting to see a sign.
We attended a baptism in the afternoon. It was held in
Tohachi which is about 10 miles past Tohlakai. We had bad directions, so we got
all the way to the end of the bad road before we realized it wasn’t the right
place. Fortunately, the car in front of us turned around and we found it was
the RS president from Tohlakai. We followed her to the church. The boy being
baptized is one of my seminary students. He is 11 years old. He was so excited
that when I asked him a question on Friday night he answered the question then
told everyone he was being baptized the next day. There was a good crowd.
Apparently, they were not able to get the cold water to work, so the water was
really hot. He was gasping for a couple of minutes when he got into the water.
The elder told him he’d do it really fast and he did. It was a nice service.
Afterward, Sister Freestone had prepared a meal for everyone. I’m not sure
where she gets her energy, but she certainly has a great deal of it.
| Rance Thompson and Grandma Mary John |
We decided to attend the Tohlakai Branch since the young man
was being confirmed and they were having a dinner for the Freestones. I called
and told the Relief Society president we would bring some food, so I threw
together a pumpkin pudding and Ted made a salad.
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